LOL Sorry, Jeff! Just spit Diet Coke on the screen!
PS - Why is it there are so many people working this close to xmas? I played all day, and now have to work all night to catch up! ICK! But, hey, my area is finding money to spend!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Jeff, you can't miss me on the sidelines. I'll get you a schedule, when we get it. Post date is mid-January.
Hmmmm just a thought, though. I can't bring my fave chair (w/a roof!). I'll have to buy one out there, and donate it when I leave. We could have eight games in three days, and S10 is trying to get "invited" to play w/the U11 team that's going... Could have up to 16 games in four days!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
You will surely want a chair, and a roof would be nice! You can't count on one of those umbrellas that screw in to the ground, sometimes the sidelines are too hard!
Be careful about touching. When XW didn't want to be touched even "incidental contact" almost left me pulling back bloody stumps.
IMHO, this is going to more a girl thing than man. girls need to feel loved before being intimate. guys feel loved by being intimate. in general that is.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I would agree, in general. Though the fact that he has managed to go for two years without taking advantage of MF does seems to say that he isn't a normal man.
Looooooonng day of running kids around. 4 inches of snow here, as well. But, I love it!
I have two stops tomorrow for presents, then I'm done! Yea!
Took S10 and friend to Buffalo Wild Wings (again) to watch the UNC game tonight. Fun! Saw some friends there, and one of my friends met us there for a $3.70 tall beer. LoL She was out shopping, and happened to see my car there.
I have some S12 bball teammates here, sleeping over. They're darling. Love the boys.
H will be home tomorrow for a short time, as he has a follow-up appointment w/the naturopath. I'll make sure he has a nice dinner waiting, as the boys and I will be gone at dinner-time, and he has to go back out of town when he's done. I can't believe he's gone a month on this detox program. She called me today, as I requested an appointment for the beginning of the year. I'm convinced my metabolism has completely stopped. (It can't be my diet and lack of exercise, right?!?!) My BFF went to her, and she's down about three sizes in jeans now... Also, I checked out the private training gym by the boys' school. I'll be doing their 8:30am boot camp class THE WEEK they go back to school. I will have no excuses after the heart procedure.
Tomorrow night is the 7th Grade Mom's Xmas dinner at the same restaurant H and I went to this weekend. It's awesome!!! Today, while I was shopping, I picked them all up a gift. Something VERY fun! They're these wine glasses, w/these women on them... FUNNY! One is a Glam Girl. One is a BFF. One is a DIVA... They are all hysterical, and have BOOBS sticking out off of them! I am giving to them randomly for fear of creating DRAMA! It will be so fun.
S12's soccer camp ends tomorrow. He told me today (afterwards) that the pro's running the camp (we know one, just drafted this year, came up through the rank's of my boys' club, and the other also was drafted this year, and came up through the rank's of my boys' club) make over $250,000 a year, MOM! Can you imagine? The Mom's and I were talking, and giggling a bit after we heard that... Handfull added they would make over a million if they were endorsed by underwear companies and modeled! Seriously, really nice boys running the camp, and what great role models. One was captain of Michigan State's soccer team (until he graduated, and was drafted), and the other was captain of Indiana's soccer team (until he graduated, and was drafted). S10 wouldn't go "because they don't know anything about goalkeeping, and who wants to WORK during break?" He's a piece of work.
Hope all is well w/my friends on the DB board. It's a very busy, emotional time.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
sounds so great Mind!! I love how you are right now.
hey, a friend of mine was on some kind of drugs for her anxiety or something, and she had been trying to lose weight, nothing worked...then her h researched the drug she was on, after the doctor kept insisting that it wasn't the problem.. well, guess what he found out? that the drug's ingredients shuts down your metabolism! she was so upset. so immediately got off the stuff.
have you taken anything in the last few years? before she started doing the mv, she said even 4-6 months had gone past and her body still wasn't normal yet.
and no, your H is not normal....right now. I remember during the years leading up to my sitch that my H and I didn't ml very often, even my mom and aunt kept telling me that's not right, but I just chalked it up to all the excuses and didn't think my H wanted to ml. but remember how things are now!! so, I'm still for you doing some touching...innocent type of touching to start, and just see what happens. just make sure you act like he missed out on the world if he turns you down. (but IMHO, he's not going to, unless it's just bad timing).
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
