Hey talked with W this evening and asked her to lunch when she returns from her trip on the 2nd. She said yes but wanted to know about our S. She also made a statement that I am trying to ignore. "I was hoping to do that before you left." (She told me that she felt our marriage was over Wednesday eve. and wanted to talk by Saturday Morning before I left) mad I said that I would make sure that we have someone to watch him. Her response was "in SC"? This is about the 4th time she has asked if he was returning to SC. Is there anything that I can say so she realizes that I am coming back with my S? I would never keep them apart she is a great mother under regular circumstances.
Also her older brother is going to be in FL starting tomorrow. He would like to see our S. I know that it will be awkward but do you think that I should say yes. He has a Christmas present for S.

I am also trying to balance the post from Ready about having her move out instead of me leaving. Can't see where talking with her and asking her to decide between moving out and staying. Just lost.

"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others."
Solomon Ibn Gabriol