Wonderful, rocked. You're looking to be in a very good place now. There may be ups and downs, I well remember similar stuff / reflections in my sitch, some backsliding through the months etc. But you sound so well equipped to handle that and I'm very happy for you!
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.