Thank you for the reply. When you say bust the affair first what exactly do you mean? The OM is located 2000 miles away but my W has flown out to see him on two occassions since she filed. She doesn't seem to give a sh** about my feelings in this regard. The OM was divorced six years ago per my W but I have no proof of this. I know where he lives and I also have his home and cell numbers. I came across the 180 recommendations and realized I had independently inacted many of these after my initial begging, pleading etc. BS. It is unclear to me if this has had any effect on her. What next?
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
