snodderly thanks-- I so hope I will see the stages unfold and xh will once again become consistant in his visits with the kids I still hold on to hope that MLC is real and xh will pass thru it sucessfully..from all ive read and heard here then maybe this would make sense like you said maybe he is in a dark place i still would like to see this end differently I still am baffled by the whole thing and how a man so committed to his kids would finally abandon them totally I am grateful ive seen it thru this long and we are all ok
happy holidays to you as well peace
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