Hi Rabbit, I think we have to patient for our H's to fully embrace their decision to re-commit to the M. I know my H has communicated that. I would like it to be all fixed and better and for us to be loving, affectionate and have lots of fun togehter. And, that is coming.... but there is lots in the way for both of us to be healed. Patience.... But at least we both have our H's home for the holidays, something to be thankful for isn't it? Hope your Christmas is wonderful!