P17, Hey man, hope today is going a little better for you. I'm a little worried that drinks, dancing, the ex, a hotel room and more drinks could put you in a bad spot. But you are a big boy and I'll trust you to do the right thing. You are STILL married, just cause your wife is cheating doesnt give you a free pass.
On the no contact thing. I'm not sure I agree with the no contact thing myself, but you've played that card and will look bad if you dont stick to your word. I wouldnt contact over little insignificant things by any means. But I dont think saying thank you for your daughter's gifts, if she gets any, is a bad idea. You said you were going for the NMMNG, which I applaud 100%. That doesnt give you permission to be a jerk though.
When she begins to think she isnt getting to you...she will pull closer to you.
