Actually while I think about it - the payment I am getting - I wouldn't like him to know about it - I just want the money to be there in case we have any money trouble and I need to step in - but I will for example need to pay for the kitchen - how am I going to do that without him noticing?
How will he notice?
You could just tell him the job needs paid for AFTER it's been done and then pay it? It needed done, it was destroying your ceiling and damaging the house interiors. You asked him to do it and he didn't. End of story for me.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
