The dealbreaker has always been honest & accepting responsibility for her actions and I guess she finally realized that I'm not bluffing.
I don't think I could hear anything that would be "gross" as far as what she did, I don't think so anyways, seriously even if she said she was "triple teamed european style", I don't think that would impact my decision, the thing is I can't be with someone who is dishonest, I did that for far too long and I'm not doing that anymore, it's not fun anymore (not that it ever was).
I would definitely state this to her, absolutely this clearly, when you're pretty sure she'll absorb it (or reiterate it, if you already have) before the final chop.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
