Again, your WAS does not shock me with his behavior or make me think to myself "it's over between DBD and her WH."
It's easy for me to look at your sitch DBD and say this. Not easy for mine (even though W is being equally hurtful).
I am reminded of what PDT said once and it has always stuck with me.
The opposite of love is not hate / anger. It's apathy.
Your H is angry and hateful, not apathetic. When they get to be apathetic (where my W is heading to) that is when it is over in their hearts. Anger and hate come out of hurt and guilt. You can't, at least in mind (he says clarifying it) be hurt and hateful towards somebody you don't care about!
Just my 2p worth. Somebody who knows a lot more than me will no doubt rip it apart
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
