Send her a text once it is done. "Dropped off your half of the decorations, hope you have a Merry Christmas".
Sakaro, I've been thinking about what you said yesterday and today.
You said yesterday that I should have no contact (to the extent of not even going to W's workplace) but today you said that I should text her about the Xmas stuff.
I'm not having a go at you, but I can't think how this will sound any other way! How can you be so dark as to disappear from the radar but still text her? Surely you are either all out or all in (as PDT said to me once)?
I do however like the text about Xmas - sounds friendly, loving, caring without being anything else. I thought about texting her that anyway and then though ... wrong thing to do
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"