Ok - next on my agenda is to tell her I have cut off confiding in female co-worker (will try to do that tonight). Stop being stepped on around the house, if she wants space, she can go to a different room not me. Stop accepting her treating me so nasty in front of the kids, she needs to at least be civil. GAL. Stop waiting for her next move. Keep radar up for continued EA.

Now, what is the best way to continue to show that I have changed while giving her space and stop putting up with pissy attitude? If I stay too distant, then aren't we back what got us into this mess. Me being unattentive and distant to the point where she gives up and decides she deserves more/better?

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11