One more thing for all, not sure if it matters, but reading some other posts, it seems like it might. Age of W. She turned 40 right around the time she decided she's done, no more, I quit.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11