I am not the best detective but I will give it a go and see if I can work it out.
You know, you once commented that your H and mine you thought were pretty similar, and reading your last post, you are right. My H did the same things, work work work, no time for family or me, same thing, needed the control factor which he still does to a degree, hates to not be in control.
I can understand your being pi#@ed, I was for a long time too, especially when he would find time for buddies and work colleagues but never his family.
It is good that you are venting all of this, you need to for your own healing, so go ahead Cas and say whatever is on your mind.
