That's a good question.

My decision to allow her "back" because interestingly enough, that is something she brought up, she wants to move back home as well, will be based on alot of things.

Kalni, I'm going to be honest, I don't know what I'm going to do, or how I'm going to react. I do know that without the honesty and full disclosure, I can't make any decision and I have the right to make a decision knowing all the facts.

I would be lying if I said I'll forgive her after hearing everything, I know I'll be mature about it, it's been a 2+ year process, I've done some considerable healing, I'm not going to revert to the scared insecure person I was many years ago.

I want honesty and I'll get it in my life, that's a pre-requisite before making any decisions about her & me but without honesty I will let you know that my decision would be a big fact "NO!"