DBD, I have been following your thread very closely and I am so sorry you H is doing this especially to your kids also. It is like they became this other person who does not care about anyone but themselves. I experience this daily with my W. She seems unmoved by the fact that her daughter hates her and will not talk to her. You would think that the WAS would never hurt thier own children, but they do and that actually tells me that the WAS is sick or addicted to the excitment of the A, it is like a drug to them. It is hard but I try to love the the W I married not the person inside her body right now. I know you still love the H you married, not the person in his body right now. I think you are getting good advice on how to handle the all the legal/money issues and you will prevail. It still does not make it any easier for us. Try to remember that no matter how dark it gets don't give up, one day he will realize the gaping hole in his life, he has spent half his life with you that is not easily forgotten. I don't think we need to wait around for our WAS but know that we can live without them and be happy. I am at work right now but will check in on you later. You are in my prayers and my heart goes out to you and family. (((((((DBD)))))))
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
