Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

H is afraid at his age to stand up and say he was wrong or that he made a mistake because they will get mad at him and he wouldn't be able to accept that.........

You know, the BIGGEST lesson I've learned through all this is that EVERY family line, EVERY ONE OF THEM, has hidden deep dark secrets, kept away as best possible from the younger incoming generations until litteraly buried. I learned things about my family I had ZERO idea of. Affairs, abuse, addictions, you name it. Some of those involved, I could simply not believe it be true. But, it is what it is. However, with the exception of the most extreme cases, D was seldom the answer.

My point is, if your H is ashamed to admit his wrongs, I guarentee the moment he gets any insight to his own families buried secrets, he will squeal everything out to relieve his conscience, all the way down to how many bazooka joe's he stole as a kid just to finally get it off his chest.