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5. The goal here is to do everything in my means, and everything within my own ethics, to squeeze the fun and life out of my wife's affair. Operation Python, if you will. The money is the first part, which should add stress to their fairytale life. Good relations with her family is another, which should help limit loopholes for her to use to get money, support, etc. Limited contact and strong boundaries is another, to keep her grounded in reality and to protect my children as best possible. And contacting the dbag's wife is a possible tactic, also, to induce stress into dbag's side of the equation if possible.


Like your goals Norse. Now take #5 and 180 it to your advantage. Start squeezing fun and adventure back into your life. Have outings with the kids, renew a hobby, visit museums, workout, throw a party at your house .....

Make #5 a inverse relationship. Make sense?


Cheers


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.