- without them I'm nothing, it's whats gotten me where I am right now, it took me a few years but I got where I need to be.
And i'm not so foolish to believe that this isn't scary for her to let go of the secrets and lies and come cleans with the ugly details but I won't make it easy on her by telling her that she can come back without those things, part of this is her investing in me, and that investing comes in many forms, one of which is honesty, life is too short to live without the respect attributed to honesty.