Looking for Advice

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My opinion is yes, stop confiding in the female co-worker. She will listen to you, validate you, support you, show care for you at a time when your W is NOT doing those things. That's probably exactly how your W got her A started. No wonder she got pi$$ed when you told her. Consider telling your W "W, I thought about it and I have decided it is inappropriate for me to confide in female coworker friend. I saw how much it bothered you and I agree it could be seen as inappropriate even if that was never my intention."

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