I told you, we are in a very similar phase (apart the SEX damn it!). And I am telling you, after all they've done and all the lies they said, it would be a fairy tale ending if they came and spilled their guts out. Human nature is against it. H did, some at least, only when he couldnt deny anything anymore. He told me he couldnt admitt he had been lying for so long, he felt it would hurt me (!!!) and not solve anything... He is getting it now but I tell you, he is having a VERY hard time doing it and sometimes I feel like I am pulling teeth...
