I love what you just said. You have grown so much through this adversity.
I too have finally got to that same place, after he stood up in court and did not tell the truth to the judge. That was lower than low, and finally came to the realization that he is not someone I want in my life at this time.
It never seems to end with them does it... I have come to the place where I can't even look at him now when he comes home.
On a lighter note...
A friend of mine enlightened me to a website called Plenty of Fish. I have been doing a little window shopping. It reminds me that there just might be someone out there that is worthy of my love. And me his.
Just a thought.
I have been following along quietly. I'm in your corner girl. Can't you hear all the cheering going on over here? And the hissing for him when he's spewing his selfish behaviour at you.
