Dday, do you think you can hop over to my thread and maybe give me some advice? My H sounds like your XW a little. He wanted to be alone, have money in his pockets, and have NO responsibilities I didn't even see it coming. We were fine the week before he left. I still don't have any answers but I do know that he tells everyone it is my fault and that he just couldn't take anymore. I don't know what he couldn't take.
Don't be sorry about your answer being more indepth than what I wanted it was perfect. Just looking to see where I can go from the point I'm at now to reconciling with H someday.
