part of wanting to know is the large circle of friends we have, I don't want to be the clueless dummy that never found that one of his guy friends had an affair with his wife - so that's part of it.
My feelings exactly. H still doenst understand why that is important. I dont want to be the one people are talking behind her back. I want to be able to look them in the eye and make it clear, there is NOTHING about H they know and I dont..