Definitely assist your children in choosing/purchasing gifts for their mom. That's for sure. As for a gift from you, you might consider getting a 'family gift' ~~~~ something from you that is for everyone in the family. That way you have remembered her with a gift but it's not personal. Another idea - does she have a hobby (reading, gardening, sport...?) You might get her a little something for her hobby - nothing over the top - but something that says "I see you, see that you love [hobby], I support you in it."
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