Hi, Deb:

Oop. Yes I have read DB and DR. H sends mixed signals in that he says he wants me to pursue, call him, ask him out. So I shouldn't listen to him now? Gosh, I'm just totally confused do what he says or do what DB says!

Ok, I'll remain silent...AGAIN and no MingL. I'm just so scared since we have a final divorce hearing on November 17 with a possible extension in 2 weeks. I'm afraid he'll show up at the extension hearing to argue against it! I'm trying to persuade him not to do that by calling him, asking him out, etc....but you are right this tactic has not proved fruitful only exasperating!!! so I need to try something else.

You are right, I need to go back to DBing in light of the fact that his mood has changed so drastically in the past 2 weeks...he went from wanting more contact to wanting absolutely nothing at all...I guess this is the case since he is not returning any of my calls...except for today, he did call me back . Go figure!

Thanks for your help and for pulling my head out of my backside !