Check on the things you can. The rest of it - her work email, a second phone, work phone - you're just going to have to let that go. You don't have access to it. I was surprised, actually, to read what Sandi wrote about the A going deeper undercover. I'm sure she knows more than me - but I was thinking you had busted the A pretty good. At any rate, you definitely do need to keep your radar up - to protect yourself.

But really, all that is only a part of what your energy needs to focus on right now. You need to be so busy GAL, getting fabulous, being the man you want to be, that you scarcely have the time to check behind her. Build yourself up for your own sake. This is what matters the most - the growth.
Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.