Sorry M, I think I was the first person that responded to all the 180s execpt those not applicable in my case. Sandi never noticed me . Nos 10 & 6 were my only set backs occasionally. And I did have R talks once every 3 months, usually asking for the divorce (and him refusing to go ahead) after validating his feelings we were not compatible. So, we both were good at it and look at us now, we are both in similar phases which makes us... hmmm what exactly?
Gno,I respect your feelings and understand (validating). Is there a chance you are a bit impatient? I mean this is by definition a LOOOOOONG ride. Is it possible you are not as detached as you think and the fact she didnt respond as you wished she would have by now, "broke you"?
I know you filled but granted her 50 voicemails, I would say, she isnt done. As FG my guru said, "change" usually doesnt happen with a bang, I would hate it for you to miss the signs because you are tired and demotivated. O Theos mazi sou aderfe mou, M
. Nos 10 & 6 were my only set backs occasionally. And I did have R talks once every 3 months, usually asking for the divorce (and him refusing to go ahead) after validating his feelings we were not compatible. So, we both were good at it and look at us now, we are both in similar phases which makes us... hmmm what exactly?
