I am not sure what she really wants here, but I think it is to help her rent a place ( I can't afford it anyway ) but no other changes (she still works 2 days/week, no divorce filing, agreements, etc).
ALL she wants is you to rollover and give her everything she wants. She wants minimal impact on HER life and to he!! with your life. Thinker had a great snippet about this: W, you are entitled to your happiness, but you are not entitled to mine too. Stay the course.
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My kids are the innocent victims in all this - she is so selfish and isn't considering the economic and emotional impact on their lives. She is telling me I should 'do the right thing for our kids' and pay her to leave and be able to rent a nice house(!)
Isn't is odd how self interested STBXS's and politicians always use the "its for the children" bit to promote their own interests? Hate to tell you, but she isn't interested in putting the childrens' needs in front of her's.
Hate to tell you, but she isn't interested in putting the childrens' needs in front of her's.
