OK, now that the list is out the way... Friday night when I left I switched off the new cellphone. Prior to this, all irrelevant parties were informed "Don't call me, I'll call you." That left only one person who would contact me on that number.
Because I've had no need for a cellphone the past few years I forgot to turn it on until Mindfull mentioned it. Anyhoo to get to the point... yesterday when I checked I had 50 voicemails (max. capacity for my provider). The first few started off with a reasonable voice wanting me to call. Then her tone of voice escalated through to angry and demanding. From that point forward I didn't bother listening and wiped out the rest of the voicemails. My attitude right now is "Whatever. Not interested. I'm Rhett Buttler. Got better things to do."
Think that's too harsh? Weeeeeeeeeell... I got my reasons too!