Cathy,

I feel as though I messed up so bad! He won't return my calls, doesn't want to see me. I think it's over and there is nothing I can do . I want to see him so bad, to at least get comforted by him but I know he won't.

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Both you and your H will start feeling better right away when you go on total abstinence from coaching and advising.

I realize now too late probably that I need to do this! I guess now I can only hope and pray that he will come back around.

I'm so sad that I f****d this up like this! But he was so unclear...the more I asked what I could do better the quieter he became. Was I just suppose to GET what he wanted? I'm so po'd today because I feel as though my hands are tied behind my back. I can't persuade him to call me!!! What should I do?

He comes tomorrow to pick up the kids. I'm afraid to see him. He'll so act like he doesn't want me and maybe that is how he really feels! It's so hard for me to understand how it can just be over like that when he was just 2 weeks ago saying he wanted to be married to me. I know feelings can't change that quickly but he sure acts like they have! This is difficult to say the least.

Thanks for the book suggestion. I'll check it out.