Hey, go to the dark side and create a black hole...what else is there to try? Besides, it could ease the pain and resentment you feel.

I think it's smart that you postponed the lawyer. This will sound nasty, but would WH cut off money to his kids?? If he doesn't give you money, he is taking away the roof over his kids' heads, food, car/gas, etc.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004