He never gave me reasons, just that the M was causing his depression. See he stopped taking his meds which I didn't know 3 weeks before he left and that's what happened. He suffers from depression and refused to take his medication. He blames the M for his depression but he is still depressed and not acting like himself at all. He claims he is taking his meds again, don't know why when he claimed the M caused his depression. Now he is drinking a lot which we all know doesn't help depression, but claims he is happy being alone. This is the second time in 13yrs. he has done this. That is when he was told he had depression (12yrs. ago). But he was only gone for 3 months this time it has been over a year now and he has his family involved which doesn't help at all. H was always an honest person and now he lies all of the time about me to his family. I guess so he doesn't look like the bad guy for leaving me and the kids.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08