Quote: Even if you think you're right about something, it's not worth it to "just be right" it's the booby prize, because all you get is to be right. You may feel better but your H won't.
Yes, that is it exactly! I've got to stamp that into my brain. Dr Phil McGraw says we should strive to be happy with our spouse not right!
Quote: I went back and forth so many times with a lawyer, also, especially after H and I had had a hard time, but I'm no longer going that way nor is my H. Don't talk R!
What did you do? Submit a dismissal? Or did you file at all?
Quote: And, if he doesn't start shaping up do you want him back anyways?
I'm pathetic but I'd be happy to just be with him at this point...he seems to want to change. I want him to see I'm different...he doesn't believe me because when I'm around him I always bring up the R (dumb me!)!
Quote: Bite your tongue, bite it, bite it.
I've got to go to counseling because this situation shows me that I have some definite control issues. I feel as though if I don't have a hand in how he fixes himself then he's going to get away from me. I'm still co-dependent!
Well I'm off to get a life! Dinner party tonight then dancing! I'm going to have FUN tonight! (I invited him too but he won't call though I have my fingers crossed!!!)
Have a good weekend, Cathy! I'll be thinking about you.
