I have read time and time again on this forum that the WAS have to experience the crisis of potentially losing the LBS to spark them into action. That is the same scenario that launched the LBS into action, right? The WAS need to really feel that they don't have you in their back pocket as a fall back option anymore. This is why boundaries, GAL and loving detachment are the foundation of DBing.
This is a problem. She knows I am a fall back option. I discussed it more less when talking about boundaries and she then said this is between you and me. I agreed and said I am willing to work on our M and see if we can get there...she might not be able to get back and I might not be able to get past the EA...but she knows I am willing to work and try and that I want it to work out.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
