His mother spoke to him about his wanting the divorce. She said that when she asked him if this was what he wanted he said yes and she said you have to be sure are you? And he said I guess. Well she said you can't do this unless you are really sure. He said I know. She said this is what marriage is...learning to get along with one another...you may think you'll be happy with someone else and at first you are but then the old problems come out. She asked if he'd be going to counseling he said what is the point since my w is not changing.
MIL said she didn't ask him if he was positively absolutely sure though but I guess this is good that he's wavering, kind of. Is he wavering by saying I guess I'm sure? He did tell her he's tired of fighting with me.
His mom said I need to back off and leave him totally alone...no more pressure absolutely NONE! I've got to get this right folks....and learn to seriously bite my tongue! Help me! Pray for me to hold my tongue and absolutely no more R talk!
I'm so excited that there is some light at the end of the tunnel again! But I'm scared too cause I'm so impatient!!!
