Good for you on the documenting. Get that to your L. Also what she said about changing the locks. That's technically your residence, and I know in CA that could cause some big legal problems for her.
When you calm down, might be necessary to say something to her about putting the kids in the middle. I'm not entirely sure, probably want to wait and see how some of the guys dealt with their WAWs. You can't actually control what she says to the kids, so that makes it difficult to set any boundary. But you can tell her that you feel it is immature/irresponsible to put the children in the middle and that you want to keep things as normal for them as possible, keep their best interests in mind. Whether she goes along with it is, of course, up to her. If she doesn't, it's more ammo for your L though.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
