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[SoldierDad]

Well, I have much to tell.

Road trip was great, first day was great, then last night my sister did something stupid. There was a photo of W and I on a table in family room, Sister was a bit tips, and took said pic, and placed it in a drawer-oldest son saw it, and immediately ran to his room.

I told him I was sorry, and he just mumbled something, and asked to be alone.

I overheard him talking to his M, tellin her things we had talked about, basically telling her that he was playing me, to get what he could out of me. Him and his M are more like best friends than M-S. Not sure how to handle this, as I didn't realize they were that close. I guess he had been acting the whole time-I dunno.

So, W texts me, that she is starting to hate me, changed the locks on the house, Said she thought it was funny that I thought there was someone at the house when I took boys to get the pillow. Here's the deal, we went by the house Sunday am, to get oldest S a pillow-about 0730. When we pulled up, there was a big truck with a post decal parked right in front of my house. Now my W is NEVER up that early on Sunday, but there she was in the back yard messing with the pool pump, and says to the boys-you scared me. She heard us pull up and heard the doors slam, not sure where OM went to.

She wouldn't let youngest go to her bedroom, but door was open. Boys were inside about 5 minutes and we left. I got pretty emotional, and pulled over and called a friend to talk to, then we hit the road.

My oldest S told her about this last night when he was upset, and she texts me telling me that it is nice that I think she would sleep with someone in OUR house. I know he was in there, and I took pics of the truck, so I could do more research later.

Now my oldest S and I have this uncomfortable vibe around us, and I am just not sure what is really going on with him anymore.

Youngest S is fine, although is scared to go back home, because oldest S told M that youngest S told me some things. It just is getting messy.

My W it seems is back in control, and again, I feel like I have done something wrong.

Things just aren't going the way I anticipated.