Haha! It's a love hate relationship with this site! I think breaks are necessary. The longest I've gone without coming here is 2 days though,since I started in November.

About ending conversations with your mom...how about not letting them start? Ex: "Cutter, how are you doing today? Have you heard from Ladybug?" "Mom, sorry but I just need to take a break from talking about it for awhile. I'll bring it up when I'm ready to talk."

The above phrase is almost verbatim (WH not Ladybug) when my friends and family have asked me and I can't bear to talk about it. It works nicely, no one is offended and I can change the subject.

My mom also goes back and forth with love-hate for WH as well! But at least she still wants us to R.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004