Sure you can validate his points that you heard him about not playing favorites.
"I understand that you aren't playing favorites and that you will spend time with both of them. You never addressed my issue about the boys being around your mistress. I have decided........."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.