I just gave her my email address and said I had a few questions and if she couold contact me – I was polite and I am not sorry for it.
This wasn't terrible to do. Your WH is threatened by you contacting OW. You can get a faster divorce if you prove infidelity, right? Not that I am telling you to do that but is that why he is lying?
I don't get this--if he wants to be done with you, why does he care if you know he had an A or why doesn't he file for divorce?
OK I have to say this..it seems like you are already living the life of a divorced parent due to his working out of the country for so long. What have you been able to do to help you feel good about yourself? What would you be doing different if you were actually divorced?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
