Yes, it took both of you to get to this place, but she had the EA and she needs to be remorseful about it. Not about getting caught......sorry about having an EA.
Deep down it is in her that she is remorseful. About 2 weeks ago on a Sunday (after limited contact with OM on weekend), she was in a lot of physical pain and I massaged her shoulders. The tension was causing a headache. After a bit of this, she leaned into me to be held and I did. I made a commment that she deserved to feel better than this and she shook her head adamanatly no and just about started crying and let me hold her a long time. I clearly know why now, deep down, repressed, she knows she did wrong...it just needs to surface instead of plotting how to keep things going (which is what I suspect is still going thru their brains).
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
