My attorney let me know that my h has been calling her office asking for the final paperwork on our d. He called multiple times she said!
I've gone ahead and asked for the continuance but we run the chance of him showing up and saying he doesn't want to be married. Well I guess if he does and the judge denies the request for an extension then the d will be a reality that I can't undo. I thought about a dismissal but then our house/equity could come into play again when he files for the d.
This is similar to behavior back in May when he was dating someone. He was in an all fired hurry to end it then too.