DBD, my DB coach warned me this month would toy with emotions so I bet it us the same for all of us in this sitch.
What do you mean by "you thought something would happen by now?"
What does an LBS do after they file for D? I don't have a clue. Could it be to proceed accordingly and save a glimmer of hope that WAS will not want to do it before the whole process is finalized?
It might even be a case where you get divorcedd and 2 years later he comes around. Did you already explain problems in your M before he left? I can look at your other thread too I guess, unless you didn't explain. :-)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004