Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[ugetvince]

I got served last night with D papers. I was a little surprised by the timing. I guess i thought it would happen after the holidays. If any thing these last few months have shown me her true colors.
I still hurt me and I think deep down I dont want to lose her but Ive got to continue to detach and move forward with my life without her.
I will be speaking with an attorney later today. Ive been going out with friends staying busy and working out everyday. i spend as much time possible with my kids and hope to get shared custody. She thinks shes entiltled to making the visitation her desicion only.
I still wonder what happened and why? I wonder if she even knows the reason for filing for d.
We have really only talked about the kids these last couple of months and there has been no talk about r or m.
Any comments from DB's Coaches?? What should next step be just smile and move forward.