Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

I'd like to go back, and read your process... Congratulation so far! Wow!

Thanks M.

I know to some, things may look a bit 'jumpy'. Really, I'm just letting this thing roll on it's own. All the while, influxing the changes in myself, and (x)W on the same token as well as she sorts them out. I certainly know we're no where near out of the woods yet, but now that all the MR issues are laid to rest, the atmosphere is one that of relief. Just have to finish clearing the air of the linger stench of OM.

The house, well, bought in '04 when the market was great and all. Was our dream home that turned into our own private nightmare. As (x)W slipped off further and further into limbo-land, it became her 'party-pad' for her and all her friends. I feeling the notion she was slipping away tried to fit in, but never made a niche for myself and was left out feeling rejected and all that other fun stuff.

The place was a contant intusion of privacy. Her brother moved into an extra room upstairs and well, thus so did all of his friends at all hours of the night.

It was just a crazy crazy place to be.

Then the financial matter of it being in her father's name, and how he handled the equity, a story in it'self. Ironically, he is now practically giving it away just to get it off his hands.

The final nail in the coffin for it is I told (x)W, the moment I walk out the front door for the final time, is the moment I was forced to commit myself to the one thing I never wanted, the big D.

It's a melancholy thing now. She says she going back there, cleaning it up in all respects and ending all the B/S partying and all. She misses all the work I put into the place for her including her prized master bath, completely gutted and rebuilt by yours truly.

So I'm just mixed. Maybe, just maybe if she can rid the place of all the evil she created with it, then I might just consider buying out from under her father. We shall see.

Since the onset of her A and our S, she and the boys lived at her father's a few blocks away.

So that's it in a nutshell.


hmmm, that city an hour away, straight out 90 west huh? If I'm right, I lived there too for a while. Has another larger mall in Cherry Valley tho, no?