JJ:

Thanks for the encouragement about him not seeming to want it to be over! I really need to hear that because he's so standoffish right now.

I've written down all the suggestions I've gotten today and will start doing them.

I've contacted my attorney about getting a 6-months extension. I'm scared about what he's going to say and do. His mom suggested saying "I would love to talk about this but am really busy and I have to go". If he asks what I'm doing I'll say that I'm leaving and end the call. BREAK THE CIRCULAR PATTERN!!!

I have a plan now thanks to my friends here and feel a lot more hopeful than I did this morning! Thanks!