Make your home the place she wants to be. Make yourself irresistable to her (catnip). Take the stress out. Make plans together- no expectations. What are her LLs? Fill her love buckets without pointing it out. Show her true giving. Be a great Dad. Don't get pouty, try to fix her, keep score or take her temperature.
Don't talk but do.
"There is no try. There is do or do not." - Yoda
Handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.