To KerryK...no rulings. The attys will go back and forth now.
To 25: boxer briefs. C'mon...get with the program. They are shaped like boxers but fit like briefs. LOL. 25, my L's plan is that she is NOT going to try this simply on maintenance and CS. If they can't work this out, she will try the WHOLE case and her argument to her L is 'do you really want to risk your client's ability to have custody'? My L feels that there is a lot of damaging testimony. However, put that in perspective with the State of NY, a middle aged Italian judge that looks like Martin Scorsese and the axiom here that 'the kids are better off with mommy.'
To Gypsy...I am on FB. I am linked to most people following here. Yeah...he is going to submit a list of things a mile long that he wants. My atty, after, told me to take my time with it and laughs at it.
To WCW...hey..go for it. There is nothing wrong with wanting to stay looking as best you can. I'm going to be single soon. I intend to look the best I can for my future companion.
Anyway, the verbal attacks continue. I was doing a defensive driver course online this weekend when STBXW comes into the room and out of nowhere, begins to attack me. You can all imagine things said: I've bankrupted the family and lowered our level of living; I'm immature; the house is a mess so it's my fault (she has not done any housework); she is not going to do any more housework and that I will have to hire a cleaning person (last time I did that, most will recall that STBXW called the police on me when I had a cleaning woman come to the house to give us an estimate).
I cleaned the toilets last week. I do 3-4 loads of laundry a week. I fold. Do all the pet stuff. Make the bed every morning. Oh sheesh. No need to type this crap anymore.
OK..WHO...here..is the victim of verbal and emotional abuse?
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
