Tridoc,

Did she see DR or DB? If not, make sure she doesn't see them. If she reads them, she may think your changes are just part of a trick to get her to stay.

Keep you R books in a better hiding place. I don't think it is helpful for her to see R books. The only one I left out while I was reading it was "Learned Optimism" by Martin Seligman.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current